Guides: when your chat has something to tell you
The situations in which people look at their chat and wonder. Honest answers, what the research says, and how to check your own chat privately.
Why is my partner texting less? What it can mean, and how to find out
They text less than they used to. What it can mean, and how to tell a busy phase from a real change.Read the guide →Is he losing interest over text? The signs that actually matter
Dry texter or fading interest? The signs that matter, and why the change counts more than the style.Read the guide →"I always text first." Is it a problem, and how do you talk about it?
Always the one reaching out? What it can mean, what's a fair split, and how to talk about it without keeping score.Read the guide →When did it go wrong? Understanding a breakup through your chat
After a breakup or ghosting: what your chat can show about when things changed, and how to use it for closure.Read the guide →Long-distance relationship texting: how much is normal, and what keeps you close
When the chat is the relationship: how much is normal, why rhythm beats volume, and how to notice when distance is winning.Read the guide →Your relationship "Wrapped": your year together in texts
Like Spotify Wrapped, but for the two of you: your year in texts, as a story to swipe through together.Read the guide →Who texts more? How to analyze your WhatsApp chat, privately
Who texts more, who replies faster, who starts? How to analyze your WhatsApp chat without uploading it.Read the guide →Can texting patterns show if someone is cheating? What they can and can't tell you
Worried someone is cheating? What texting patterns can and can't show, and how to talk about it instead of guessing.Read the guide →