Your relationship "Wrapped": your year together in texts
A relationship "Wrapped" turns your WhatsApp chat into a story of your time together: who texts first, your busiest week, the hour you talk most, how many hearts you sent and how your chat changed. It makes a sweet anniversary surprise, and with paired it's made on your phone, without uploading your messages.
What is a relationship Wrapped?
A relationship Wrapped is a year-in-review for a couple, built from your chat. Instead of top songs, it shows your patterns: how you text, when you talk, and the moments your chat looked different.
Which stats are the most fun to see?
The most fun stats in a relationship Wrapped are the ones that start a conversation or a laugh, like who texts first, who replies faster and your busiest week:
- Who starts more conversations (usually a small surprise)
- Who replies faster, and by how much
- Your busiest week, and what happened that week
- The hour you text most, from lunch breaks to 1 am
- How many hearts and "love you"s you sent
- How alike you've started to write
Can it be an anniversary gift?
Yes. Swipe through the story together, or save a few slides as images and put them in a card or a photo book. The PDF report works as a printed keepsake.
How do I make one from WhatsApp?
Export the chat from WhatsApp (without media), open paired in your browser and pick the file. The analysis runs on your phone and takes seconds.
- iPhone: open the chat → tap the name → Export chat → Without media → Save to Files
- Android: open the chat → ⋮ → More → Export chat → Without media
- Then pick the file on paired-ai.com. Nothing is uploaded.
Is it safe to upload our chat to a website?
Some online analyzers upload your chat to a server, so check before you use one. paired works differently: the file is read in your browser, and your messages never leave your phone.
What if the stats show something we don't like?
Unwelcome stats happen: maybe one of you always texts first, or a quiet month shows up. Treat it as a conversation starter, not a verdict, and look at the good stretches too.
How far back does it go?
As far back as your export: WhatsApp exports the whole chat history on your phone, so a chat from years ago can show your whole story, month by month.
Ideas to make it a gift
- Watch the story together on the couch, then pick your favourite slide
- Print the PDF and put it in a card or a photo book
- Save the "our chat over time" chart as an image for your phone background
- Compare with next year: analyze again on your next anniversary
What your chat can actually show
Here's the timeline from the sample chat: messages per week and affectionate messages, with the moments things changed. Your own looks like this, with your year.
- A swipeable story with your stats and charts
- Who texts first, who replies faster, your busiest week and hour
- Hearts and affectionate messages over time
- Share images for your favourite slides, and a PDF to keep
What texting can't tell you
- The dates, trips and evenings that never made it into the chat. Those are yours to add.
Check your own chat, privately
Export your WhatsApp chat and see how it changed over time. Free preview, analyzed on your phone. Nothing is uploaded.
Analyze your chatOr look at an example first: · Sample report
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Questions
Is there a Spotify Wrapped for relationships?
Not from Spotify, but you can make one from your WhatsApp chat with paired: a story of your stats as slides you can swipe and share.
Can we do it together?
Yes. Either of you can export the chat; the story is made to be watched together.
Does my partner see that I analyzed our chat?
Only if you show them. Exporting doesn't notify anyone.