Sample report: what paired shows about a WhatsApp chat
This is the full paired report for the chat of our sample couple, Alex and Jamie, generated for this demo. Your report is built the same way from your own chat, in your browser.
Connection Index: 19/100 · Drifting. Lately you've been drifting apart.
What we found
- Replies got slower lately. Typical reply time in the last 8 weeks: 14 min. Before: 3 min. How we calculate it
- Tense words came up more often lately. 3 per 100 messages in the last 8 weeks (20 in total), 0.6 before. How we calculate it
- From June 2025, your replies got slower (3 min → 26 min), while Jamie's stayed about the same (3 min → 4 min). How we calculate it
- You've been texting 56% less in the last 8 weeks than before. 84 messages a week, down from 193. How we calculate it
- Less affection lately. Hearts, "love you", "miss you" and similar: 4.5 per 100 messages in the last 8 weeks, 16.2 before. How we calculate it
- After tense moments, Jamie is the first to say sorry, 15 out of 17 times. Counted across 17 tense conversations. How we calculate it
- You write less like each other than you used to. Style match 98 → 89 out of 100 (last 2 months vs before). How we calculate it
- Lately, Jamie is the one starting more conversations. 80% in the last 8 weeks, up from 55% before. How we calculate it
- From June 2025, affectionate messages became rarer. 17.3 → 6.4 hearts, "love you" and similar per 100 messages. How we calculate it
- From June 2025, you wrote 52% fewer messages a week. 223 → 107 messages a week. How we calculate it
- You both write about the same amount. Over the whole chat: 51% vs 49% of all messages. How we calculate it
- Your longest silence: 6 days, in July 2025. How we calculate it
- Your busiest week started 13 Jan 2025: 308 messages. How we calculate it